Modern romance can feel a little bleak these days, which is part of why we wanted to create this space. Maybe you’re looking for advice. Maybe you’re looking for solidarity. Maybe you’re looking for someone interesting who still believes in conversation, curiosity, and meeting people in real life. Share your stories, ask for advice, and know that you’re among people who get it.

Writer and producer in the making. I'm autistic — have been since age 3 — which in practice means I'm observant, loyal, and hyper-focused on whatever earns my attention. My friends call me funny, dry, and more mature than I have any right to be. I follow baseball and hockey closely; the NFL gets my casual attention. I love comedy writing in my free time, particularly essays. Looking for someone intellectually curious, a little cheeky, and not thrown off by a guy who takes ideas seriously. If y

I’m a personal trainer who completed a master’s degree last year, with a background in research, fitness, and performance. I’m also interested in politics, international relations, and religion. Outside of work, I like cooking, reading, long conversations about big ideas, and spending time in nature. I’m naturally introverted, but very outgoing with people I connect with. I’m ambitious and hope to travel and experience more of the world. I’m really looking for a long term relationship, future w