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BikerChick's avatar

I think they think it’s more a more serious term than girlfriend/boyfriend but it’s not.

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Notes from the Under Dog L.'s avatar

I dislike ‘partner’ but it’s sillier to call someone you’ve lived with for 15 years your‘boyfriend,’ especially since he’s a man. He’s not a ‘roommate’ or a companion.’ The language hasn’t caught up with the culture.

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Maureen Mehlman's avatar

What happened to SO? That was at least an acknowledgement of a more serious ship than partner or boy/girl-friend.

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Notes from the Under Dog L.'s avatar

Significant other is just as semantically problematic. My mother is a 'significant other' and so is my brother. The solution is to get married young, call that person 'husband' or 'wife' and get on with it.

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BikerChick's avatar

Why’s it silly? I lived with my boyfriend 8 years before we got married, I was fine with the term. It described the relationship.

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Maureen Mehlman's avatar

I many states that constitutes a common law marriage.

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Kate Cahill's avatar

well we could go back to the old hippie lingo and say "my old man" or "my old lady"? Or maybe say "my CL" (common law)?

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Notes from the Under Dog L.'s avatar

OK boys and girls! Recess is over! Line up behind your home room numbers!

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BikerChick's avatar

Howdy partner, your schedule K-1 is in the mail! Also, we need to discuss dissolution options to include in our operating agreement.

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