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Abigail Shrier: Parent Your Kids
“The single most important job of any parent—to raise good people—is one so many of us are failing,” writes Abigail Shrier. (Timothy A. Clary/AFP via Getty Images)
Want good, strong kids? Show them what self-respect looks like.
By Abigail Shrier
09.15.25 — U.S. Politics
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This article is part of a Free Press series on “Repairing America in the Age of Political Violence.” Read the other entries, including from Coleman Hughes, Sam Harris and others, here.

By all accounts, the parents of the man who allegedly murdered Charlie Kirk are good people, decent enough that the suspect’s father reportedly helped turn in his own son to the authorities. The father’s act was righteous and, very likely, excruciating.

Reading the coverage, I was reminded of a dinner I attended a few years ago, hosted by a conservative group that had invited me to speak on a university campus. I sat next to their primary donor, a lovely man, and asked about his kids. What were they studying? Were they dating? How were they doing?

“Well, I got one kid who’s a communist,” the man said, chuckling, with an air of: What do you expect? She attends a prestigious university.

I didn’t laugh. I thought: We’re all going to pay for your defeatism.

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Abigail Shrier
Abigail Shrier is a journalist and author of Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters, named a “best book” by The Economist and The Times of London. She is a senior fellow at the Manhattan Institute, a recipient of the Barbara Olson Award for Excellence and Independence in Journalism, and a graduate of Yale Law School.
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