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Why My Generation Is Bad at Partying
“Like a too-effective antidepressant, we’ve smoothed everything out—then wonder why it all feels flat,” writes Sascha Seinfeld. (Gordon Munro via Getty Images)
An invite app made it easier to throw parties. It also made them worse.
By Sascha Seinfeld
07.22.25 — Culture and Ideas
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Millennials use Facebook Events. Parents use Paperless Post. Boomers use email. Brides use snail mail. Pirates use bottles.

But when we’re planning something, Gen Z uses Partiful.

Launched in 2020, the party-planning app makes it easy to invite people, track RSVPs, and send text blasts—all with a sugarcoated sheen. Hosts create colorful event pages with an animated lava-lamp background, plus location, date, time, instructions, and silly cover photo. Guests RSVP with one click—which unlocks the names on the guest list, a sly little incentive. Don’t you want to know: Who’s going to be there?

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A 2020 pandemic innovation, Partiful’s goal is simple: Make America socialize again. “We want to make it easier to get to know friends-of-friends,” the site says—a welcome antidote to the closed off, group chat-siloed circles many of us live in today. “America is in a party deficit,” according to Ellen Cushing of The Atlantic. On an average weekend, only 4.1 percent of Americans attended or hosted a social event in 2023—a 35 percent drop since 2004. And this dearth has hit young people pretty hard; this Reddit post, in which a young person asks Gen X if parties were “ever actually a thing”—captures the fun-famine better than any stat:

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Sascha Seinfeld
Sascha is a writer and junior editor at The Free Press. While at Duke University, her sketch “O-Week” appeared on Inside Amy Schumer and contributed to a Writers’ Guild Award-winning season. She later worked for screenwriting duo Lauren Blum and Rebecca Angelo (Business Affairs Productions), pitching ideas for projects including Dumb Money (2023). After graduating, she wrote, directed, and fundraised for her short film The Final Cut (2024).
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