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My Valentine’s Day in Prison
When you’re a prisoner, there is not a single moment when you’re not mindful of what you’re missing due to being separated from your family. (Mayra Beltran/Houston Chronicle via Getty Images)
Two years ago, Valentine’s Day arrived six weeks after I reported to a federal prison on public corruption charges. But I was determined to try to make the holiday as special as possible for my wife.
By P.G. Sittenfeld
02.13.26 — Culture and Ideas
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Two years ago, Valentine’s Day arrived about six weeks after I reported to a federal prison in Ashland, Kentucky. Following a movielike sting operation in which I, then a Cincinnati City Council member, received campaign donations from undercover FBI agents, a jury convicted me of one count of federal extortion and one count of federal bribery, alongside four acquittals. A judge handed down a 16-month sentence. For more than a year, I would be separated from my wife, Sarah, and our two young sons, then 1 and 4.

While there was nothing I could do to immediately fix the situation, I was determined to at least still try to make birthdays and holidays—Valentine’s Day included—as special as possible. So, weeks in advance, I began my plan. Despite having little to no crafting abilities, I cut a piece of paper into the shape of a heart, as though I were an elementary school student, and scrawled a personalized Valentine’s note.

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P.G. Sittenfeld
P.G. Sittenfeld is a contributor to The Free Press, and his recent work has also been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Esquire, Slate, Outside, The Hill, America Magazine, and Princeton Alumni Weekly. His journey has taken him from Princeton University to politics to prison to successful Supreme Court petitioner. He regularly speaks around the country at law schools and law firms, in private sector settings, and in American prisons. He enjoys writing about the U.S. legal and criminal justice system, faith, and fatherhood, and he lives with his wife and three young sons in Cincinnati.
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