The Free Press
Think for Yourself in the Forum
ForumNewslettersSign InSubscribe
The Girlboss Is Sleeping with the Intern
“We are in the midst of an epidemic of dissatisfaction among women of a certain age—an existential malaise for which the only cure is to break vows,” writes Kat Rosenfield for The Free Press. (Courtesy of A24)
The middle-aged man who bangs the intern is contemptible. But in ‘Babygirl,’ his female counterpart is daring.
By Kat Rosenfield
01.09.25 — Culture and Ideas
135
571
READ IN APP

The first time you meet Romy, you hear her before you see her, moaning in ecstasy as she sits astride her naked husband. The camera pans over her strawberry-blonde hair, her smooth forehead, her open mouth. A skilled aesthetician has clearly had a hand here, and so it’s hard to guess how old she is. Forty-five, maybe? Fifty? The moaning reaches a crescendo, and Romy collapses next to her husband, who tells her he loves her.

“I love you,” she says back.

And then, she climbs out of bed and skips quietly down the hall, sprawls on the floor with a laptop, and masturbates to pornography. Because that gasping orgasm you just saw? Much like her thick eyelashes and lovely, shapely lips, it’s entirely fake.

Romy, played by Nicole Kidman, is the protagonist of the new film Babygirl, which hit theaters in the last days of 2024. She’s a high-achieving, artfully injected, happily married mother of two, who spends her days managing the company she founded and her nights having intercourse she never enjoys—because what she wants, what she needs, is something her husband can’t give her. When she meets the man who can—the man who knows, somehow, that Romy “likes to be told what to do”—a steamy affair commences. His name is Samuel, he’s about 25 years old, and riskiest of all, he’s her intern.

“Do you want to lose everything?” he asks her.

Fourth of July sale
Limited Time Offer
Celebrate 250 years with $25 off an annual subscription.
Already have an account? Sign in
To read this article, sign in or subscribe
Kat Rosenfield
Culture writer, novelist, and podcaster. On Twitter at @katrosenfield.
Comments
Comments are closed. The conversation isn’t. Keep it going in The Free Press Forum.
Join the conversation
Share your thoughts and connect with other readers by becoming a paid subscriber!
Already a paid subscriber? Sign in

No posts

For Free People.
LatestSearchAboutCareersForumShopPodcastsVideoEvents
Download the app
Download on the Google Play Store
©2026 The Free Press. All Rights Reserved.Powered by Substack.
Privacy∙Terms∙Collection notice