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Arthur Brooks: Family Estrangement Is a Tragedy
Cutting ties with a family member has the same effect in our brains as the death of a loved one.
By Arthur Brooks
01.26.26 — The Pursuit of Happiness with Arthur Brooks
“The Beckham family spectacle shows us that the rich and famous are as prone to this tragedy as the rest of us.” (Illustration by The Free Press; WENN Rights Ltd via Alamy)
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Have you been following the public saga of the schism in the Beckham family? (If you have tried not to, I understand and apologize for raising it to your consciousness.) Brooklyn, the 26-year-old son of David and Victoria Beckham—the famous footballer and pop star, respectively—has cut ties with his parents. In a statement on social media last week, the young man explained his decision, citing interference in his marriage and an upbringing that was “performative” and “inauthentic.” “I do not want to reconcile with my family,” he said.

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This very public estrangement has gotten international attention. You might think that’s because it’s so outlandish, like the O.J. Simpson murder case. But that isn’t it at all. Family estrangement is utterly commonplace. In fact, all the Beckham family spectacle shows us is that the rich and famous are as prone to this tragedy as the rest of us. That’s what makes it so compelling.

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Arthur Brooks
Arthur C. Brooks is a social scientist and one of the world’s leading authorities on human happiness. He is a professor at the Harvard Kennedy School and Harvard Business School, Free Press columnist, CBS News contributor, and host of the podcast Office Hours. From 2009 to 2019, he served as president of the American Enterprise Institute. His books have been translated into dozens of languages and include the No. 1 New York Times bestsellers Build the Life You Want (co-authored with Oprah Winfrey) and From Strength to Strength. His next book, The Meaning of Your Life, is available March 31, 2026. You can learn more at www.TheMeaningOfYourLife.com. He lives with his family in Virginia.
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