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A Man Should Know: How to Own a Watch
“What gave my watch value was that I wore it.” (Adrienne Grunwald for The Free Press)
I was wearing my watch the day my children were born, the night I met my wife, and the day we got married.
By Elliot Ackerman
11.14.25 — Culture and Ideas
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Welcome back to A Man Should Know, a weekly column from Elliot Ackerman about how today’s lost boys can become tomorrow’s good men. This week, Elliot reflects on an often-overlooked skill in a man’s life: owning and treasuring something of value.

In the summer of 2006, I was part of a Marine Expeditionary Unit deployed aboard the amphibious ship USS Iwo Jima. Israel had invaded Lebanon weeks before, and our unit of Marines was responsible for evacuating Americans out of Beirut.

This sounds more exciting than it was. We mostly sat on the ship, ready to respond if Hezbollah interfered with the U.S. Navy ferrying civilians between Lebanon and Cyprus. We had all been fighting in Iraq the year before, and it felt particularly frustrating to be sidelined with an evacuation mission while the war raged nearby.

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Elliot Ackerman
Elliot Ackerman is a New York Times best-selling author of numerous works of fiction and nonfiction, including the novels 2034, Waiting for Eden, and Dark at the Crossing, as well as the memoirs The Fifth Act: America’s End in Afghanistan and Places and Names: On War, Revolution, and Returning. His books have been nominated for the National Book Award, the Andrew Carnegie Medal in both fiction and nonfiction, and the Dayton Literary Peace Prize, among others. He is a contributing writer at The Atlantic, a senior fellow at Yale’s Jackson School of Global Affairs, and a veteran of the Marine Corps and CIA special operations, having served five tours of duty in Iraq and Afghanistan, where he received the Silver Star, the Bronze Star for Valor, and the Purple Heart. He divides his time between New York City and Washington, D.C.
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